I learned that divorce is one big game - attorneys and judges work in concert, handling hundreds of cases and you’re just a number.  They will extort you for money, they will play games while claiming to have your best interests at heart, and if you challenge them or question their tactics, their arrogance takes over. Judges are generally by the book, but male judges don’t want to lose their jobs, so if a woman makes an unorthodox claim, they tend to err on the side of the woman.  Female judges are either extreme man haters (misandrists) or they see through the “Me Too” lies & bullshit and judge accordingly.  There are things I’ve learned and want share, to help every man anticipate and defend against these tactics, and to get the upper hand.  Believe me when I tell you that you have EVERYTHING TO LOSE – you must be an active participant in your divorce or you will become another number, another cog, another statistic.