Question 1

Why Us?

Accepted Answer

Our founder, JR, has been helping friends, family, and colleagues navigate their divorces for years, leveraging his own experience and background. He has helped save men thousands of dollars in legal fees and time, by streamlining and coaching men through the court process.

Question 2

How Will We Meet?

Accepted Answer

We typically meet over 30-minute sessions via Zoom or Google Chat. It's important to have access to a computer (desktop or laptop) to view our presentations, as “face-to-face” meetings work best. Please come prepared with a notepad and pen to take diligent notes.  Also make sure you complete the intake form as thoroughly as possible.   Send us an email at beannluke@gmail.com (beannluke@gmail.com)if you have questions or need some technical help.

Question 3

Do You Offer Refunds?

Accepted Answer

Divorce4.men does not offer refunds for any coaching sessions provided. The commitment of significant resources, time, and effort is the reason for this policy.

Question 4

Do You Guarantee an Outcome?

Accepted Answer

Of course not! There are too many variables to consider—such as her attorney, your attorney, the judges, local laws, etc.—to predict any outcome. Therefore, Divorce4.men cannot guarantee the outcome of your divorce. Our coaching aims to improve your situation and offer a male perspective, but many factors can affect the final result. We believe that by using our services, you gain an edge over your spouse.

Question 5

Do You Travel? Can You Come to Court or Meet in Person?

Accepted Answer

If you are local to the Southwest United States, it's possible to meet in person. However, we also work, travel, and have other clients, so it may not always be possible. We never say no; we just can't always guarantee it.

Question 6

Can You Recommend an Attorney/Tell Me Anything About Her Attorney?

Accepted Answer

We aim to create a sense of community amongst our members. If, for example, you live in Maine and need legal counsel, we can ask other members or their attorneys for recommendations that may suit your needs. Google will be your best friend and the best advice we can give is you must know how to manage and communicate with your attorney!

Question 7

Do You Hate Women?

Accepted Answer

Of course not. However, we acknowledge that women sometimes play games, pretend to be a victim, and lie. High-profile cases like Amber Heard and Johnny Depp, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, SCOTUS and accusations against public figures illustrate how society often accepts accusations without a shred of evidence. This is the kind of challenge you may face.  Accusations laid against you cost her nothing! Defending them could cost you a fortune.

Question 8

Do You Share Your Story/Will You?

Accepted Answer

Yes, during our meetings, you’ll hear about experiences we encountered during our divorces, especially with kids. People are encouraging JR to write a book about his experiences, which may happen in the future. However, JR prefers to work behind the scenes for now, helping other men.

Question 9

Do You Deal with Gay, LGBTQ, or Other Types of People/Relationships?

Accepted Answer

No. Our coaching is specifically for biological men divorcing biological women. We do not engage in the DEI game nor any Woke agenda, and focus solely on this demographic.

Question 10

Are You Lawyers or Attorneys?

Accepted Answer

No, we are not lawyers or attorneys, nor do we pretend to be. We are not licensed counselors nor mediators. We do not offer legal advice, but JR’s attorney from his divorce remains a confidant and provides wisdom, which we share with you through coaching. We strongly recommend hiring competent legal counsel familiar with divorce for any courtroom matters.

Question 11

Are you married/did you remarry?

Accepted Answer

Fuck no.  Once bitten, twice shy.  I have had a long-term partner who was with me through the divorce.  She actually helped and pushed to develop this site and help others.  Eighteen years strong now.

Question 12

Why Only Men?

Accepted Answer

Because men are hardwired differently, think logically, and aren't as emotional as women. As a male, you are often hated and loathed by many females who tend to stick together. They may blame us for everything and expect us to be ATM machines. We're here to help you avoid falling into that trap.

Question 13

How can we reach you?

Accepted Answer

beannluke@gmail.com (mailto:beannluke@gmail.com)is the best way or you can try support@divorce4.men  Who are Bean & Luke?  Those were the nicknames of our boys when they were little, so it’s only apropos to have them as our email.

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